Huh???

The other day I was visiting with some friends while our Bishop entertained us with stories of how he and his wife started dating. He commented that usually if a girl had a lot of interest from other guys he would bail, but that he had made the decision that he was going to get married that year and so none of that mattered anymore. He had a goal in mind and he was going to do everything to meet that goal. This came as a revelation to us girls standing there listening to our Bishop. You see we had always been told that guys liked girls that seemed to be in high demand, that there was competition for. What our Bishop was saying, and what the guys standing there were agreeing with, is that guys actually don't like the idea of competition and will walk away if there are other guys there vying for a girl's attention. SAY WHAT?! Yeah, pretty big information for us girls! So I'm putting it out there to you boys that may actually be reading this....which do you prefer? I can understand not wanting to fight for a girl's attention, but if there aren't any guys hanging around does that make you shy away as well? Which one is better for us girls to do...hang out with boys or don't? Please, please, please explain yourselves!