Flowers & Chocolate

I was talking to my Nephew who just started school at BYU the other night and the topic of boys and girls came up. Somehow flowers and chocolates came up too...hmmm....shocker?! I think not :) Anyways, I know that sometimes you boys think that flowers and chocolates are cliche' and to tell you the truth, they kind of are, but I want to throw this out there...they are still important. Or at least the concept of flowers and chocolates are important. Girls want to feel special. We want to feel like you did something for us that is different than what you do for all the other girls in your life. Show us that romance is alive. Show us that we're worth the extra effort. Just don't tell us to keep it between the two of us. That just makes us wonder why you don't want people to know about it. For example, I had a guy send me flowers at work and in the note ask me to keep it between the two of us. That just put me in an awkward situation. I had to lie to everyone at my office about who the flowers were from and it made me wonder who else he had sent flowers to in our office! FOR REAL?!?! Don't do that, don't take what should be a wonderful, give us butterflies, make us blush gesture and turn it into something shady and overused.



Of course it doesn't have to be flowers and chocolate. It's not about flower and chocolate, it's about romance and chivalry. So if you're dating a girl that like motorcycles and guns, plan a date where you pick her up on a motorcycle and take her to the shooting range. Maybe she's more into football or basketball...then send her a t-shirt from her favorite team. Maybe you see something in the news that makes you think of her or worry about her, then send her a text message! I had a guy do that just the other day and it just made me feel special. I loved it! So it's really about those little somethings that make us feel unique, that reminds us that you're thinking of us. Take a couple of minutes, think about things you can do, write them down and then do them! Good luck boys!