So let's say that you've gotten up the guts to ask that cute girl (asking out lessons to come) that you've been eyeing (eye contacting lessons coming!) to a movie or other such date. You're sitting there at the movie and you notice out of the corner of your eye that she has her hand closest to you on her knee or maybe on the arm rest that you two are sharing. This is the signal for HOLD MY HAND! When a girl makes her hand available for you to hold, that's on purpose, not by chance.
If she's the type of girl to carry a purse and you're walking from point A to point B or maybe even point C and she's carrying her purse in the hand farthest from you, guess what??? She's making her hand available for you to hold. Although this isn't the most common time to hold hands for the first time, it's still a cute classic.
Now if a girl has her arms folded and her hands tucked in, or under her legs, or clasped, that's the signal to not even try to hold her hand. If you're going with the walking scenario she'll either hold her purse in her hand closest to you or (if she doesn't carry a purse) she might tuck her hand into her pockets.
Questions?
Happy Hand Holding!
this is great info! I mean, I being a girl don't need this but, I'm very glad you are informing the guys out there what is going on in our heads!
ReplyDeleteI'm a guy and I wanta know what are the reasons a girl could have a ring on her left ring finger...besides the obvious? Do girls really just wear them for fun? I didn't think they would.
ReplyDeleteIf a girl does wear a ring on that finger and they are not married, they are aware of the signal that they are putting out. The signal is "I'm not available". They weigh that decision in the morning when they put that ring on, and if they decide to wear it, then they are not available either because they are in a relationship or it could be that they are not emotionally available, or they just don't want to be hit on.
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